About a year ago a week from valentines day i got asked to be part of a group discussion on love and sex. A year later after the interview was transcribed from the tapes to paper it was printed in QXmag for this years valentines issue. Its amazing how much i can see my attitudes towards the topic have changed over that year . I still feel that love and sex are two separate entities and that to "fall in love" doesn't mean that sex is involved and that LOVE as a word is over used and saturated to what i believe is a group of feelings and emotions that get bracketed together to form the heading of LOVE. Which if you separated out these feelings and emotions it strengthens the reason of why you want to be with that person rather than just saying "i love them that's why I'm with them"
A few of my ideologies have change and its nice to have this discussion interview revisited a year later as you do wonder how much of you changes over time and in a year which is such a short time in your life span a lot can differ.
XXX ASHLEY RYDER
