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Sunday, 10 April 2011

CLUB FLESH

Come see me and the other hot guys perform for you at CLUB FLESH in Antwerp on SAT 16TH APRIL
SEE YOU THERE

http://www.redandblue.be/

XXX ASHLEY RYDER

Saturday, 9 April 2011

Book Your Tickets Now

David Hoyle my uncle in the film UNCLE DAVID is taking on the Soho theater for a while in august. For anyone who hasn't been to see David i advice you to get tickets coz you ain't seen anything like this before. For those that have i tell you now to get tickets as you will be well aware how quick his nights sell out.
 
Soho Theatre presents
david hoyle
Unplugged
6 - 20 August 2011
The legendary David Hoyle, anti-drag queen and controversial performance artiste with a lacerating social commentary, is bringing us something entirely new. Unplugged is David’s first fully musical show, singing some of his favourite, and some original songs.  This is David as you’ve never seen him before.

'The outstanding figure of London's current cabaret scene... scandalisingly entertaining' 

Time Out 

'Quite the scariest, funniest, smartest, truest, noblest thing you can see'

The Guardian

'A GENIUS'

Time Out

PRODUCT TESTED : Gloves

With fisting being my party trick and a life long obsession i want to make sure that all the new kids out there are doing it safe and still keeping it fun.
 
HepC in rising at an alarming rate with more and more people getting infected. One of the ways you can catch HepC is through fisting. HepC is carried in the blood so wearing gloves will greatly reduce the chance of the tops nails getting in contact with the linings of your ass and causing tears or damage which could make you bleed. Even with gloves make sure the top has cut his nail supper short, get out a nail file to make sure there are no sharp edges because you really don't want the gloves to split inside your ass as well . Also be careful of sharing lube if your in a  flip flop, group session, or just round another fuck buddies house make sure you have taken your own lube in a clean bottle and keep it just for your own use during play, as i was recently told that the HepC virus can live up to 30 DAYS in a dead blood cell SCARY right. THINK if the top or bottom gets out a crusty looking bottle or even a clean one ask him when was the lube made. I would just not use it FULL STOP. For the top there is less risk if you have a glove on, as it will cover up any cuts or scratches you may have on your hands but for the bottom if your using someone else's lube you don't know who has used it before you. small amounts of blood could be in the lube from a previous play session and if that comes in contact with you then you increase the risk of you getting infected.
OK so i have used many gloves in my time but these are the ones I'm sticking with. Powder free so it wont cause irritation and supper smooth. That are a little thicker than the cheep ones you buy in the  pharmacy but i have asked the tops i have played with and they said they could still feel my ass through them.  As for giving a smoother surface i found these great as they help reduce friction which reduced the change of any damage happening to my ass.

My advice guys is simple if your going to get fisted or fist someone remember;
  1. CUT YOUR NAILS.
  2. WEAR A GLOVE.
  3. BRING YOUR OWN LUBE or MAKE SURE ITS FRESH LUBE in a CLEAN CONTAINER (a sports bottle is good if you use lubes like Jlube)
  4. NEVER SHARE LUBE
  5. AND IF YOUR IN A GROUP (lucky you) GET THE TOP TO CHANGE GLOVES BETWEEN EACH PERSON HES FISTING. And WASH HIS HANDS AND FORE ARMS.
I know its a bit of a pain in the ass but not as bad as the 6month min treatment to clear HEPC is.

GUYS PLAY SAFELY AND RESPONSIBLY.
If you want to buy these gloves

XXX ASHLEY RYDER

Friday, 8 April 2011

GRAPPLE101 on tour

A few weekends back we were asked by the organisers of BACKING THE BID for the 2018 GAY GAMES to join in with their club night WELL FIT. The venue was union in Vauxhall and the crowd built up to a mass of sports teams and fitness fanatics. With Jack Chang on the decks it couldn't be better
I spent most of the night getting people to try out the mats like i do on my regular Wednesday GRAPPLE101 nights at the eagle. Shoulder pinning just a simple exercise but fun to do when you dont know wrestling moves. The crowd loved it but maybe not a much as i did.











IF YOU WANT GRAPPLE101 to come to a town near you then get in contact.  if you own a venue outside of london great or if you want it to bring a bit of difference to your party then drop me a message

XXX ASHLEY RYDER